"When was the last time you have done something for yourself?"
-nathan

Think about it! When was the last time you did something that was actually going to make your life better in some significant way? When did you last make a decision that was not based on it's impact upon other people, but primarily based on a positive impact for yourself?

I'm not talking about buying a cheesecake and eating it. I mean things like working out, going to a dance class, traveling, learning a new language, going for a hike, etc.

"Make a decision for yourself!"
-Brianne

I think the implication here is pretty simple. I have been so busy trying to include Allan in everything I have sort of dis-included myself from any decisions I make. I have ceased to be Naomi and become alnomi...argh.