How do you know when you are over somebody? I am not talking about Al. I just mean in general, there was a guy a very strange and special guy (lol nature boy). I loved this guy and he never knew, now the feelings are there just calmer and more subdued, I know I will always care but I wonder...does this mean I have moved on? What is moving on, will we always love those we have opened ourselves up to loving? How can we know when to give up or move on for sure?