Had a fight with Allan yesterday. I spent about an hour trying to figure out where all of our money has been going, there is about $400 I can not account for. Then when we get home Allan tells me he hasn't put his cheque in yet. I lost it. I had been bugging him about it for most of last week. He was like yeah I figured we'd wait just a few more days. That did it I was up and screaming like a fucking banshee. He started yelling back saying every night when I came home I was always grumpy, and I told him that was irrelevant. Then he starts to say he had no idea this was such a big deal to me. My response "EVERY MONTH FOR THREE FUCKING YEARS WE HAVE HAD A FIGHT ABOUT YOUR CHEQUE!!!!!" Seriously, wtf? So he apologized and said it wouldn't happen again. Which is good because if it does, the door is wide open I'm sure all of his stuff will fit through it just fine. There are other details I could include but who really wants to hear them anyway?